How I create a new instance of datagridview incl. the data

Question

How I create a new instance of datagridview including the data, delete records on the instance and pass the instance to the gridview again, why this....because I have the Datagridview on webform and I have a usercontrol where I have to delete records, and I need to pass the instance of the Gridview to my Control.....anybody have some idea or best solution for this.