good sharepoint prgramming book or site?

Question

can anyone recommend a good book and/or site that lists all the sharepoint form controls and their parameters?
ex:
<Sharepoint:DVDropDownList runat="server" id="ff4{$Pos}"
<SharePoint:FormField runat="server" id="ff4{$Pos}"
 
i need good sources that list the form classes and explain their members / arguments / options